The 2 Best Main Pics for Your Online Dating Profile

The 2 Best Main Pics for Your Online Dating Profile

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The 2 Best Main Pics for Your Online Dating Profile

Alright guys, this is a continuation of "6 Must-Have Pictures for Your Online Dating Profile", and here I'm going to cover the two best options to use as your main profile pic on your profile. Most major dating sites require this shot to be a headshot, so let's get down to business.

A basic head shot, your main profile picture

This is usually the most intimidating shot guys have to put up. First off, we assume that the close up picture is going to make or break our profile. It's not. Women are far less likely to nix a potential dating prospect because of their looks than we are. She is going to screen you based on your picture, but she's just making sure you're well groomed and don't look psychotic. Women are far more forgiving of looks than men.

Just make sure you give the impression you want to. I recommend being clean shaven. Studies show that people trust men with no facial hair more than they trust guys with beards or goatees. But if you have a certain look, and you're confident with it, go for it. Some women like a tough guy look, and some guys can pull it off.

The two best main profile pictures

No smile and looking away from the camera:

There was some really interesting research done by one of the major online dating websites to see which main profile pictures got the most responses. The results may actually surprise you: the best picture for a guy, in terms of new contacts made, was a photo where he is looking away from the camera and not smiling. Second most successful was a picture looking at the camera and smiling.

So, get a picture of yourself where you're not looking at the camera, and don't smile. You're going for a mysterious look. Again, don't smile, or worse yet, flirt or try to look sexy. Looking like you're flirting with someone off camera was by far the least appealing picture.

Be careful if you go with the mysterious look; sometimes what we think looks mysterious just comes off as weird. Ask a female friend or email it to me for my opinion if you're a member of my site and I'll let you know. Also, if you go with a main picture where you aren't smiling, I'd recommend having at least one extra photo where you are smiling and having a good time posted to your profile as well.

Smiling:

If you're going to smile, it has to look like the real McCoy. One of the major keys to making your smile appear genuine is to be sure that your eyes are smiling too. I'd suggest getting in front of a mirror and thinking of something that makes you happy (I re-live seeing my brothers and my dog when I got home after being overseas for four years). When you're happy with the way your face looks, freeze it right there. Look in the mirror. Feel your face. Notice what muscles are being used, feel the pull of your cheeks, remember the way your eyebrows feel, feel the tension in your ears and scalp. You want to memorize exactly the way your face feels when you look truly happy. Then, when you want to project a real smile for your picture, all you have to do is think of your happy memory and make your face feel the way you memorized it. Do the same thing for a mysterious or mischievous look if you are going for that image in your main picture.

Actually, you can do this with a bunch of different emotions and "fake" any one of them, anytime you want to. This skill is really useful in social situations because once you get good at it, it allows you to project any feeling or emotion you want regardless of whether or not you're feeling it based on what's really going on in the conversation. So if you know the reaction someone wants, you can create images and memories in your head at will, and your facial expression, body language, and tone will all reflect the memory, not necessarily what you are really feeling in the present.

That should get you set up in the right direction, I'll cover the "must-do's" for the rest of your photos in future articles.

Until Next Time,

JT

Cosmetic Surgery For Ears

Cosmetic Surgery For Ears

Cosmetic Surgery For Ears

If your ears are misshapen in any way, shape or form, you may be among the thousands of people who are considering cosmetic surgery for ears. The ears are such tiny features on the human body, but when they don't look right, they can really mess with your head. It's because they are so there, so obvious, and no hat or hairstyle can hide ears that aren't perfect - all it takes is a gust of wind and whooosshhh! Your ears are exposed.

Cosmetic surgery for ears might involve fixing problems that you were born with, such as ears that don't lay flat, ears that are not symmetrical, cupped ears, or ears that are shell shaped, ears with overlong cartilage or even pointed tips. Cosmetic surgery can also help to repair ears that were damaged, perhaps by too heavy earrings that created a too large hole in the lobe, or even a tear of the earlobe.

Ears deserve as much attention as any other part of the body, and that's why you don't want to consider anyone to handle your ears who isn't properly and thoroughly qualified to do so. A cosmetic surgeon should be your first port of call, and not just any cosmetic surgeon, but one who specialises in otoplasty. Cosmetic surgery of the ears requires a deft touch, so that the change is subtle; that will reduce the likelihood of over-correcting, as some surgeons are wont to do.

Take, for example, ear pinning, a surgical procedure whereby a sliver of skin behind the ear is removed so that the ear lays flatter to the skull. An experienced plastic surgeon who attended the "Less is More School of Thought" knows that only a tiny sliver of skin is required to accomplish the job, in a way that makes the ears look natural. Too much, and you'll have ears that resemble those on a doll. Especially with ear pinning, you want a surgeon who gets it right the first time, because there may not be enough ear left to work with if a second chance is needed.

Before undergoing cosmetic surgery for ears ask for before and after pictures of satisfied patients. Make sure you feel comfortable with the plastic surgeon, with the clinic and with the proposed procedure. You should also be told exactly and clearly, what you can expect, before, during and after the procedure, and what risks might be involved. Choose your cosmetic surgeon wisely - cosmetic surgery for ears is an art form - make sure your cosmetic surgeon is an artist.

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Dogs In Art - A Painting Of Your Dog Is Better Than A Pic

Dogs In Art - A Painting Of Your Dog Is Better Than A Pic

Dogs In Art - A Painting Of Your Dog Is Better Than A Pic

Now I'm not saying that pics of dog's are bad, I'm just saying that everyone
should have there pet represented in the form of a painting. As a dog owner myself,
I have several pictures of my little dachshund Max, and my yellow lab Sasha.
They are good pics and I'm glad I have them, but I also have had a few painting's
done of them by one of my favorite artists. These paintings capture my dogs
spirit so much better than any of the pictures I have.

In fact the face and
body in these paintings LOOK more like my dogs than half of my pictures. Only
because the artist that I used had the talent and vision to create such a great
work of art. He looked through the pics I already had and wasn't satisfied
with using any of them. He actually took some pictures of his own and used
those as reference for his painting. Out of 25 or thirty pictures, he felt
only 2 or 3 were worthy enough to use for a painting. I thought the pictures
he used were really good, and then I saw the finished painting and thought
it was even better than the pics.

Now I have this cool surrealistic painting that really represents how I feel
about my dogs in an Iconic way.

The beauty about a painting, whether it's done in oil, acrylic, watercolor,
etc. is that the artist is able to take out any unwanted imperfections you typically
get with a photo like red eyes, heavy and dark cast shadows, fur frizzes, an ear
folded back, any ugly items that the dog might be sitting next to. etc.

I have had one person tell me that "Max seems to be more than just some dog in
this painting". This remark coming from a friend of mine that doesn't like
dogs very much, but he made it apparent about how cool he thought the painting
was. I take a great amount of pleasure knowing that this painting had given
him a new appreciation for animals that he didn't have before.

I had the idea to have portraits painted of my dogs when I was thumbing through
a dog art book one day. Here are just a few paintings that
inspired me. Just copy and paste the text into your browser. Enjoy!

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Michael Werner is an artist/writer. please click on his link to see his dog art. [http://www.mwernerart.com/petportraits.html]

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Ears and Hearing - 7 Myths Debunked!

Ears and Hearing - 7 Myths Debunked!

Ears and Hearing - 7 Myths Debunked!

Myth: To clean my ears, only cotton swabs, keys, or my fingers work

Truth: Do not put anything in your ear that is smaller than your elbow

Many people think that ears must be cleaned like our bodies to remain healthy. While ears do need to be kept clean, they actually clean themselves. How? The skin of the ear canal (cerumen) migrates outward and acts as a protector of the delicate eardrum. Many times, prodding, poking, or picking at this material pushes it back in, causing blockage and potential temporary hearing loss - or even accidental puncture of the eardrum. In that event, a serious injury to the hearing bones can result in the need for emergency surgery.

And if itchy ears are often incorrectly relieved using cotton swabs the repeated scratching can cause a thickening of the ear canal, much like a callous. This pushes wax even deeper into the ear canal.

But some ear canals don't remove the wax like they are supposed to - they are too narrow, so the natural cleaning process cannot do its job. In this case, ear wax accumulates. So how do you know if your ears are cleaning themselves properly?

If your ears are not clean, they may feel gummy and you may be tempted to grab that cotton swab or key. And if wax completely obstructs your ear canal, you may experience hearing loss. But don't take matters into your own hands! Visit your ENT (Ear, Nose and Throat) doctor, who can safely remove the wax build-up.

But if you want to try alleviating the wax at home, gently clean the outer portion of your ear canal with a wet washcloth. If your ear still feels blocked, you should call your doctor and have the cerumen removed.

The next best thing is to gently irrigate the ear canal with 3% hydrogen peroxide, using a small rubber ear syringe. Then dry the ear canal with a hair dryer set on a medium temperature; hot temperatures can cause temporary dizziness due stimulation of the balance canals.

Myth: If my ear hurts, I must have an infection

Truth: Pain is usually caused by something less severe

One major cause of ear pain is inflammation of the temporomandibular joint (TMJ). The TMJ joint lies adjacent to the ear canal. Because of this close proximity, many of the same pain nerves are shared.

Swimmer's ear (External Otitis) is another common cause of ear pain. It's the result of the ear canal becoming and staying wet. This warm, wet, and dark environment is the perfect place for bacteria and fungus to live and multiply, causing an infection.

Another cause of ear pain is otitis media, an infection in the middle ear. This infection occurs after an upper respiratory infection reaches the middle ear, via the Eustachian tube.

Neuralgia, an inflammation of the nerves around the ear, can cause excruciating pain that feels like jabbing or stabbing inside the ear.

So how do you know what's causing your ear pain?

TMJ is indicated if you press on the jaw joint while opening and closing the mouth and its hurts or is tender. A swimmer's ear infection may be your problem if gently pulling on your outer ear hurts.

Otitis media and neuralgia are generally accompanied by sharper pain originating deeper in your ear. Otitis media is normally accompanied by pus draining into your ear canal through a perforation in the ear drum.

By now you're wondering, Can I treat any of these problems myself?

Although TMJ inflammation should be managed by a dentist, you can temporarily relieve the discomfort by eating a soft diet; placing a warm heating pad on the affected jaw joint twice daily; or by taking anti-inflammatory medications. But if the pain still persists after a few days of home treatment, you must consult a dentist that specializes in TMJ pain.

Swimmer's ear can be prevented by filling the ear canals with rubbing alcohol after every swim. Let it site for a couple of minutes, then draining the alcohol and dry your ears with a hair dryer set on medium temperature. Once swimmer's ear infection occurs there can be a tendency for recurrence when the ear gets wet. Then it is even more important to treat your ears with alcohol after each and every swim.

If your pain is significant and comes from deep in your ear, you should seek treatment by an ENT doctor right away. Using special instruments, your doctor will clean the ear canal and prescribe antibiotics (either drops or oral medication) to eliminate any infection.

Myth: Popping my ears is dangerous

Truth: Popping your ears is rarely dangerous

While you can have problems with your Eustachian tubes - the part of your ear that "pops" - rarely is the act of popping them the problem.

So what are some of the problems you might encounter with your Eustachian tubes?

One is blocked Eustachian tubes. The Eustachian tubes connect the middle ear cavity with the throat, aerating the middle ear when you swallow and draining mucous and secretions from the middle ear into the throat. Often a cold or sinus infection will cause the Eustachian tube membranes to swell. When this happens the Eustachian tube is not able to function, causing pressure and stuffiness in your head. Your
hearing may feel diminished, and fluid may accumulate in the middle ear.

Another potential problem is abnormally open (patulous) Eustachian tubes. This is an uncommon cause of ear stuffiness and usually occurs when someone loses weight. When your Eustachian tube is open it can cause the sensation that your voice is loud or has an echo (autophony), like you are inside a drum. It may also cause a sensation of hearing air "whoosh" when you breathe through your nose.

So how can you tell if you have blocked or open Eustachian tubes?

Pinch your nostrils closed and blow hard against them. If you cannot "pop" your ears, your Eustachian tubes are likely blocked by swelling of the mucus membranes. However, if you suddenly feel pressure relief you've probably just opened your Eustachian tubes and equalized the middle ear pressure with ambient air pressure.

This maneuver can be performed many times throughout the day to relieve blocked Eustachian tubes. There is no danger of harming your ears with this technique, but if you get dizzy you should see your ENT (Ear, Nose and Throat) doctor.

To diagnose open Eustachian tubes, sit down and bend forward completely at the waist, putting
your head between your legs. If the pressure and stuffiness in your ear disappears you have open Eustachian tubes. Lying flat in bed will relieve the symptoms of open Eustachian tubes.

If popping your ears, bending forward from a seated position, or lying down do not relieve your ear pressure, your problem may be due to increased inner ear pressure and should be evaluated by an ear specialist.

If you have blocked Eustachian tubes over-the-counter medications such as decongestant nasal sprays can help shrink the membranes, relieving pressure in the ears. Flying in an airplane, skin diving, or
scuba diving should be avoided if there is blockage of the Eustachian tube, as landing or descending in the water will result in severe pain in the ears. If you must fly, taking Afrin® nasal spray (two sprays to each nostril) and a 30mg Sudafed® tablet one hour before descending. This will help open your Eustachian tubes, helping prevent ear pain. If symptoms persist, you should contact your ENT doctor.

Depending on the cause of your open Eustachian tube, your ENT doctor may recommend several different treatments. Treatments for increased inner ear pressure include prescribing diuretics or office surgery to deliver steroids to the inner ear.

Myth: Loud noises won't hurt me because I'm young

Truth: Loud noises can damage anyone's hearing, no matter their age

Damage to the ear can occur from exposure to loud noises like guns fire near the ear, industrial sounds, lawn and construction equipment, and music played too loud - especially via headphones.

But how do you know if you have hearing damage? If you experience ringing, stuffiness, or hearing loss after noise exposure, damage to the delicate cells of the cochlea has probably occurred.

Unfortunately, most hearing damage is permanent, so the best treatment is prevention. Ear protection should be worn in any noisy situation:

o loud work environments

o when using power tools and noisy yard equipment

o during firearm use

o when riding a motorcycle

o when exposed to loud music at concerts

But hearing protection doesn't have to be bulky or ugly. Today's ear plugs are practically invisible, and ear muffs can blend in if worn in the winter. Custom molded ear plugs are also available to ensure
an optimal fit in the ear canal. Additionally, some personal listening devices have volume limits, preventing excess noise exposure.

The good news is that for some cases a short course of steroids may reverse acute hearing damage.

Myth: There is no treatment for tinnitus; I just have to live with it

Truth: Many treatments can help tinnitus sufferers

Tinnitus is a very common hearing-related complaint - upwards of 50 million American adults have some degree of the hearing disorder. Tinnitus occurs as the little hair cells in the cochlea die, causing noise or ringing in the ear.

Although this ringing is not a serious problem, people experiencing it should be evaluated by an ENT doctor because it can indicate a more serious medical problem. When you are evaluated for tinnitus, your physician will perform special tests to determine the cause and recommend treatment if necessary.

So, what kinds of treatments are available for those with tinnitus? Currently several treatment options exist, including

o Masking tinnitus with outside noise such as music or TV. If the tinnitus is accompanied by hearing loss, a hearing aid can increase outside noise, reducing the intensity of tinnitus.

o Low-salt diet.

o Electrical stimulation.

o Stress reduction.

o Bio feedback.

o Zinc, Ginkgo, garlic pills, and supplements including high level antioxidants.

o Brain retraining, in which a therapist works with you to train your brain not to hear the tinnitus.

Also, knowing that tinnitus is not a life-threatening problem may help you cope.

Myth: My parents went deaf, so I am bound to go deaf, too

Truth: Heredity is a factor in hearing loss, but not a certainty

Hearing loss is a combination of many factors: exposure to loud sounds, general health, heredity, and age. We are genetic products of our family, and hearing loss is no exception. And as we age, the tiny hair cells in the cochlea that lie closest to the middle ear begin to die, resulting in a high-tone hearing loss. But no one factor plays a more influential role than the others, so no one is "doomed to deafness."

Normally a gradual process, hearing loss can occur quite suddenly - even overnight. If you suddenly notice that you can't hear out of one ear, it is a medical emergency. Put the phone up to your ear; if you can't hear the dial tone, see an ENT specialist as soon as possible. Hopefully it is just ear wax blocking the ear canal, but you need to visit an ENT to find out for sure.

Signs of more gradual hearing loss include

o Needing to turn the TV or radio turned up louder than other family members

o Asking people to repeat themselves all the time

o Your spouse says you don't listen to him or her

o Sounds muffled, or distant

o You have trouble hearing from a cellular telephone

While hearing loss is certainly disappointing and inconvenient, it can be treated. Examination by an ENT doctor is necessary to make the correct diagnosis. This usually includes a hearing test and other special ear tests.

Once a diagnosis is made, treatment can begin. Treatment for sudden deafness is done with steroids either taken orally or placed directly into the ear. Additionally, a hearing device may be needed.

Treatment for the more common, progressive hearing loss that can reduce symptoms and effects includes a four-part program of healthy life style changes, including

o At least 30 minutes of daily exercise,

o Vitamin and mineral supplements,

o A healthy diet of veggies, fruits, whole grains, fish and lean meat, and

o Protection from excessive noise exposure.

Myth: There is no treatment for deafness in one ear

Truth: Two successful treatments exist for hearing loss in just one ear

There are two hearing devices that allow a person to hear from a deaf earCROS and BAHA.

CROS (Contra Lateral Routing of Signals) or Bi-CROS is a hearing aid that uses microphones to pick up sound from the deaf ear and transmit it to the hearing ear. As a result, the CROS aid allows sound to be heard from all directions, and even allows a telephone to be used in the deaf ear.

BAHA (Bone Anchored Hearing Aid), or bone stimulator, picks up sound from the deaf ear and transmits it through the skull to the hearing ear. Minor surgery is required to implant a titanium screw behind the ear, serving as an anchor for the external processor, which holds the device. The results are excellent.

Herbert Silverstein, MD, FACS is president and founder of the Florida Ear & Sinus Center and the Ear Research Foundation, in Sarasota, FL. He has been consistently recognized since 1979 as one the "Best Physicians in the USA." He has been a leader in Meniere's Disease treatment for more than 25 years, developing surgical and diagnostic procedures; inventing instruments (such as the Microwick); teaching medical students, residents and fellows; and helping people from all walks of life.

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Man Earring: a macho look in jewelry fashion

Man Earring: a macho look in jewelry fashion

Man Earring: a macho look in jewelry fashion

These days, there is a call for more "metrosexuals," or men who are conscious about their looks and clothing, so much that it is actually important for them to be not only presentable, but fashionable as well in civilized society. The television program "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy" has revolutionized makeovers for all of us, for it has shown that, yes, it is indeed possible for men to be pleasant to look at without being "girly" or "dandy." Masculine jewelry, such as man earrings, are a big part of this metrosexuality trend.

Men who can boldly wear necklaces, bracelets and earrings to set off their hair or their eyes are men who have achieved the next level of metrosexuality: accessorizing. In the end, a tasteful selection of jewelry helps to make the man. Rings and necklaces, bracelets and cufflinks, all add to the image of the powerful, self-possessed male.

And man earrings are definitely "in"! Next to necklaces, earrings are the most popular men's accessories. Quite a few big-name male stars, young idols especially, are making man earrings a fashion must. Think of Johnny Depp (who started off as a teen rebel heartthrob in the television show "21 Jumpstreet") and David Gallagher (who plays Simon Camden in the TV drama "7th Heaven").

Men's jewelry is not just for clean-cut urbanites -- in fact in the streets, earrings on men are considered symbols of toughness. Indeed, the man earring, in general, speaks boldly of the courage to have one's own sense of fashion, to set one's own trend. Mr. T has his own collection of earrings that make for his tough-guy look, and quite a few hiphop and R&B artists - such as Jay-Z and Usher -- have all but trademarked their own jewelry ensembles.

Man earrings play up sexuality without sacrificing masculinity. Worn either on one earlobe or both, it makes a man look more snazzy and cool. Whether they be diamond, gold, silver, or platinum, earrings have become a necessary part of a man's jewelry arsenal.

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Guitar Learning Online - Ear-Training Needs

Guitar Learning Online - Ear-Training Needs

Guitar Learning Online - Ear-Training Needs

"Seek ye first the Kingdom Ear-training (i.e., having an acute and well trained ear) and all things needed to becoming a proficient guitarist will be yours." Do you go around in circles looking for guitar instruction that will take you to the next level and beyond? Why is it so difficult for so many to start let alone continue on their way to becoming really proficient guitarists while others experience little problems in accomplishing this task? Some students would already have books, videos, tapes, CDs, etc., and even talented teachers while still not making progress. Yes....and not to forget the many solo and chord progression techniques learned that would supposedly allow them to play any sound desired, triggering even more frustration when very little improvement is manifested.

My dear fellow guitar students, there is only one simple answer to these questions: Having or not having a well trained ear. In other words most of us need proper Ear-training.

Many well intentioned students and gifted teachers are not wholly aware of this common yet serious limitation (ear-training deficiencies) facing a great number of musicians. Countless tutorials are designed not fully taking into consideration this setback.

Are you getting the point? Focus on what you need most to improve; and for most guitarists, ear-training is the answer.

Do you crave these aural skills?

- Musicians are able to recognize and sing pitches that you hear. They can identify, usually by note name, the various pitches that they hear, and sing those pitches in tune;

- An individual can not only make out a chord like Gb9sus, but name and recognize its root and other components.

- Being able to detect whether your instrument, the piano for instance, is tuned a little "sharp" or "flat" with respect to another.

Some individuals may posses the much desired and talked about perfect pitch or absolute pitch. Upon hearing music, they would be able to point out details pertaining to an F chord and its exact octave range, or the many inversions of a D minor chord. Isn't that just amazing? Certainly it is... and many experts believe that this skill can be leant.

Starting your journey to attaining good Ear training (Aural Skills)

It's widely accepted and illustrated that acquiring relative pitch know-how is highly beneficial and feasible for the majority of musicians. Those who seek to learn the guitar online would be aware of the numerous courses offered in this field. A person with relative pitch skills will be able to figure out intervals (the distance in pitches between two notes) when two notes are played. They are also able to classify chord progressions when a series of chords are played. An illustration of this will be a I-IV-V7-I chord progression. These progressions are to be found in many songs: once these progressions become familiar to you, songs would be easier to remember.

Luckily, relative pitch is a lot easier to acquire and its attainment is more than enough to become a competent guitarist or musician. Some useful exercises that can start you off on your pursuit for a better "ear" are as follows:

1. Attempt first to dominate the major chord, subsequently adding the minor, pentatonic and blues scales and so on.

2. Interval mastery is a must...so you must begin practice in this area as early as possible.

3. Learn to play arpeggios: broken chords that are an extension of interval study.

4. Improvising over your favorite melodies and chord progressions will create some valuable and pleasurable interludes.

Don't believe trainers when they claim that your training is always going to be enjoyable. If your musical hearing ability is significantly challenged, then a solution will involve a major sacrifice. Patience and habitual practice are vital in developing aural skills: the benefits are well worth the sacrifice though.

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How to Talk Dirty to a Guy With a Text Message - Trigger His Desire Through Text

How to Talk Dirty to a Guy With a Text Message - Trigger His Desire Through Text

How to Talk Dirty to a Guy With a Text Message - Trigger His Desire Through Text

What guy doesn't like dirty talk? Men love their girlfriends to talk dirty. If knowing what to say in the bedroom makes you nervous, maybe you need to learn how to talk dirty to a guy with a text message first.

Texting lets you reach out and talk dirty without every saying a word. Dirty talk text messages can get your guy hot and bothered and have him racing home to get you in bed. The best part is, you get credit for talking dirty even though you did it in a text.

Men are very visual. So, the best messages will create a sexual picture in his mind that will instantly turn him on and wanting you like never before. That image will stay in his mind and he won't be able to stop thinking about it.

There a several tips to help you learn to talk dirty in text:

Tip #1: Don't Leave Out Any Details

Don't just say, "I love it when you touch me." Instead say, "I get weak with lust when I feel you nibble behind my ears with your mouth."

Tip #2: Use Words To Describe What You Like

Instead of texting, "I love your strong arms," try "I love to feel you're your tanned, muscle bound arms pull me in close."

Or try,

Instead of a text that says, "I love the way you kiss," say "I love the way your warm mouth takes my tongue and gently sucks it in. I get shivers just thinking about it."

Tip #3: Make everyday routines, sexy.

If you are shopping at Victoria Secret you may want to send your guy a text saying, "Hey sexy, I'm looking at all the the sexy lingerie and wanted to know if you think I should get the see through pink lace or the leopard print thong."

After you get used to learning how to talk dirty to a guy through a text message it will become even easier to carry on with the sexy talk in bed. It will begin to feel more natural the more you practice. And, think of all the fun each practice session will be!

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